ENThe article is based on a lecture given at the 24th Internat. Congress of Individual Psychology on August, 1st 2008, in Vilnius (Lithuania). In remembering self-assurance it tells from the mothers, foster mothers and foster fathers of Lithuanian Individual Psychology, which is no child any more. As an African saying goes: You will need a whole village to bring up one child. The article tries to show how varied and international this village is in case of Individual Psychology in Lithuania - and how much all persons involved enjoy seeing the child growing and flourishing.